How To Become Skilled At Flirting |
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Written by Ron Zvagelsky
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Sunday, 06 January 2008 |
The topic of flirting has been the subject of a number of scientific studies. In
fact research has shown that flirting is done in every culture around the world,
regardless of race or language. It is first important to realize that flirting
is a basic form of behavior. By flirting, humans show that they are interested
in specific partners, and if they did not do this, there would not be a way for
humans to reproduce. Consequently, the human species would soon cease to exist.
To flirt properly, it is first important to know the best places to flirt.
In our society of today, flirting at the wrong time or place can be
inappropriate. It is important to know when flirting is a good idea. Perhaps one
of the best places for flirting is parties. In addition to parties, any type of
social event of celebration is generally acceptable when it comes to flirting.
More often than not, flirting is not only acceptable at these events, but it
will often be expected. These events are excellent places to find potential
dates. While many people realize this, few understand why. The reason why
parties are great places to flirt is because of a process called "cultural
remission."
Cultural remission can be defined as an environment where
rules and restrictions that would normally be placed on members of society are
relaxed for a certain period of time. However, this does not mean there are no
rules. Unfortunately, many people find this out the hard way at celebration at
Mardi Gras, where getting to wild can get you arrested and thrown in jail.
However, flirting in ways that would normally be restricted in everyday life
would be allowed at parties or other celebrations. It should not be surprising
to note that alcohol and flirting are intimately connected.
The reason
for this is because alcohol is the substance of choice at places where flirting
is commonly allowed. Some of these places are parties, pubs, clubs, bars, and
even restaurants. A number of studies have shown that not only is alcohol
connected to flirting, but it actually makes you more effective at flirting when
you are using it. However, you must not go overboard when you are using alcohol,
or you could end up in serious trouble. Another great place for flirting are
colleges and universities.
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About The Author
Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from
the University of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006.
He is currently the Chief Executive Officer of http://www.planjam.com – an interactive
planning website.
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Image "Young Love" by Manny Proebster
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Last Updated ( Sunday, 06 January 2008 )
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